From sandbox troublemakers at age 3 to adults at 21, Alex has been my partner in crime for nearly two decades. We’ve grown up side by side through just about every stage of life, creating more memories (and probably more trouble) than we could ever count. He knows all my stories… so please don’t give him a microphone. Through the highs, the challenges, and everything in between, he has always been someone I could count on. More than a best friend, he’s truly been a brother to me, and having him standing beside me on this day means the world. I honestly couldn’t imagine this moment without him by my side.

Although we didn’t grow up side by side, our bond has grown naturally through love, family, and plenty of unforgettable wedding planning moments. She has been a constant source of support, patience, and positive energy throughout this journey, bringing calm, encouragement, and laughter when it was needed most. Having her stand as my Maid of Honor is both an honor and a joy. A reflection of the relationship we’ve built and a beautiful reminder that family connections only grow stronger with time.

Joe is my younger cousin and someone I’ve grown up with for most of my life. When we were younger, we spent a lot of time play-fighting and messing around, always finding a way to keep things interesting. As we’ve gotten older, that same bond has grown into something I really value. He’s an all-around great kid, and I’m proud of the person he’s becoming. Having him stand beside me as a groomsman means a lot and is a reflection of how far we’ve both come.

Kylyann is my oldest friend, the kind of friend who feels more like a built-in sister. Our moms were best friends before we were even born, so you could say this friendship was basically pre-approved from the start. She was even the flower girl in my mom’s wedding… and now she’s standing beside me as a bridesmaid in mine, talk about a lifelong contract. We’ve grown up side by side, made more memories than we can count, and somehow survived every phase together. I’m so proud of the woman she’s become and everything she’s accomplished. She holds such a special place in my heart, and having her next to me on this day just feels meant to be.

Sal, my fiancée’s brother, is someone I’m proud to have standing beside me today. Although we haven’t had as much time together in person as we may have liked, every moment we’ve shared has been full of laughs and great conversation. We seem to share a few of the same traits, which probably explains why we get along so naturally. He’s someone I’m grateful to call a good friend, and I look forward to many more years of spending time together, sharing stories, and enjoying the simple moments of brotherhood. I’m also looking forward to finally hearing a few stories about his sister that I somehow haven’t heard yet.

Jaelyn is someone I haven’t known for very long, but every time we spend time together it feels like we’ve known each other forever. She has such a warm and genuine personality that makes it easy to be around her. I’m so grateful for the time we’ve shared and for the opportunity to grow closer. Having her stand beside me on this special day means so much, and I feel incredibly lucky to have her in my life.

Ayden may only be 12, but he’s already tougher than most adults I know. Our bond started before he was even born, I used to read books to him while he was still in his mom’s belly (so if he’s extra smart, you’re welcome). From the first day I held him in the hospital, he’s had a permanent place in my heart. He’s like a son to me, someone I’m incredibly proud of, and a true professional snack thief. There’s absolutely nothing I wouldn’t do for him, and I’m beyond lucky to be his uncle.

Jessalynn is truly one of the sweetest people I have ever met. Watching her grow from a little girl into the young woman she’s becoming has been so special. She has been excited about being part of this wedding since she was little, and I can’t wait to have her standing beside me on such an important day. We’ve shared so many little stories, laughs, and sweet moments together, and they mean so much to me. She’s one of my favorite little people in the world, and having her by my side makes this day even more special.

Shivy is someone I’ve known since middle school, and over the years we’ve grown a lot closer, especially in recent years. We’ve shared some really great moments together and happen to have a lot of the same hobbies, which makes spending time together that much better. He’s someone I genuinely enjoy being around, and I’m more than happy to have him standing beside me on this day.

Luciana, or Lucy as I call her, is my best friend and someone who has meant so much to me for years. From the moment we met, we became fast friends and were almost immediately inseparable. We spent nearly every day together, doing everything side by side and making countless memories. Life eventually took us in different directions, I moved, we both entered new chapters of our lives, and she became an amazing mom but no matter how much time passes, whenever we talk it feels like no time has gone by at all. We miss each other often, but the bond we share has never changed. I will always have so much love for her, and having her stand beside me on this day means the world to me.